Olivia Pope is known for inspiring a generation of powerful women in business. We look to her for inspiration in our own careers and hope to handle situations with as much style as she does. But behind the career, confidence, and fabulous trench coats, Olivia is still a woman worth aspiring to. Apply these lessons to your personal life to round out the Olivia Pope effect.
Put Yourself First
Olivia relies on no one but herself for happiness and fulfillment. Sure, she dreams about Vermont with Fitz and standing in the sun with Jake, but at the end of the day, she finds her value from within. Olivia never hesitates to stand up for herself and fight for what she deserves. It’s not about being selfish, it’s about knowing your self-worth.
Indulge A Little
It’s important to treat yourself after a long day of strategizing and handling sticky situations. Olivia knows this all too well and enjoys Gettysburger, red wine, and popcorn after a job well done. Your treats don’t have to include greasy comfort food and alcohol. Simple pleasures like an at-home mani/pedi, a luxurious bubble bath, or an extra hour of sleep can be just as indulgent and rewarding.
Change Your Mind
Though it’s maddening to Scandal viewers, Olivia is never afraid to change her mind regarding her love life. While some may see it as flighty, we choose to see it as bravery. Too many of us never switch careers, move to a different city, or say how we really feel because we believe it’s too late for change. Take it from Olivia: it is okay to change your mind as many times as you want. You are allowed to and we encourage you to. It’s the only way you’ll ever grow.
Give It Your All
Olivia never holds back in any aspect of her life. Every client gets her full devotion and each conversation receives her undivided attention. She is wholly present in every moment and refuses to be less than her best at all times. Make the most of every minute by being absolutely present with everyone in your life. Your conversations will go deeper, your work will be better, and your relationships will be stronger.